Why are some virgos soooo bossy? Grrr!?

NO KIDDING SOME ARE DEFINITELY CONTROL FREAKS...I DO NOT LIKE virgos like that...ive seen virgo females that are better but some of the men ick...I avoid them. I am soft hearted and i dont need them...they are downers..i had a female friend a twin who was sept 2 she was sweet but my relative born sept 1st male is ajerk..ugh