Is my boyfriend truly terrible in bed, or am I the problem?

it may feel like it but it is truly impossible to be one of those women. as many as have claimed have tried something new and bam! instant orgasm. 9 times out of 10 is it about 70% his fault for being disheartened 30% your fault for putting too much pressure on not just him but yourself! what I have heard is best is try doing things in different places. try in public. or in the shower. just have a wild thrash around the entire house never hitting the bedroom:p anything new and exciting to switch things up a bit will hit all those other points :p try new things and lessen the pressure on him. hell if nothing else works some women blackmail :p try me 4-5 times til you get it right or nothing for yourself. harsh but on the right guy effective :p just dont demasculate him or you will be doomed for nothing:p